A new study carried through for Robert Epstein, professor of psychology and researcher of the University of Harvard, together with Shannon L. Fox, showed the efficiency of ten ' ' types of competncias' ' in the creation of the children proven for some scientific inquiries. Ten attitudes to create happyer children: 1-Love is essential. He is importantssimo to accept and to support the children as really they are, showing it loves that them of this skill and using to advantage each moment next to them. It estresse 2-Manage it. To reserve a time you to relax, looking for to make exercises or something makes that you well, are something that helps in the emotional balance. If everything this not yet to advance, invests in the psycotherapy to better understand and to control its feelings and action.
3-Ability of the relationship also counts. To keep a healthful relation with the partner or other important people in its life and the one of the child, demonstrates how much it is important to keep true affective relations. 4-Incentive to the autonomy and independence. It is basic to treat the children with respect and to stimulate them it if to become confident people and with initiative. 5-Follow the learning. It is important that the parents value and follow the curiosidades of its children, exactly simplest.
6-Prepare for the life. It talks on delicate subjects, as fear, sex and death in accessible language, as well as guiding them and preparing them to assume responsibilities. 7-Attention in the behavior. To recognize and to strengthen positively the good attitudes and to appeal to the punishment only when other methods, as to talk, already had failed a time more than. 8-of eye in the health. Good parents propitiate a style of healthful life and stimulate good habits as regular exercises, hygiene and feeding adjusted for its children.